Showing posts with label sharing boot camp. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sharing boot camp. Show all posts

Monday, July 14, 2008

Jessie's visit -- a summary

Jessie & Bella left yesterday afternoon. I've been a little blue today, especially while looking through all the photos I took during their visit, but I decided I had to post this while it's still fresh in my mind...

18 1/2 glorious days together

1 trip to the cemetery

3 or 4 joint baths -- Eva modeled "taking a mermaid" for Bella (lying down on her back and letting her hair spread out like Ariel's, Little Mermaid theme song being sung in the background) and Bella actually did it a few times! Eva got frustrated with not having enough room to spread out her short little legs, but she still wanted to share her baths with Bella. What's a girl to do?

1 girl who was happy almost all of the time and managed to just crack me up.

1 outing to Seven Peaks -- yikes. We could only handle one!

1 water bug that Max caught in the wading pool. He put it into Eva's bug-catcher (favor from Bella's birthday party) and they brought it inside for observation. After 2 days, I announced that we would have to let the water bug go or he would die from lack of food. Eva was devastated that I was getting rid of her pet! I never would have believed that my little bug-o-phobe would want one for a pet!

1 unsuccessful attempt at watching the annual balloon launch. Better luck next year!

Many days of playing in the wading pool that Heidi lent us -- most of the fun seemed to be in scooping the water out and pouring it elsewhere.

A few rare moments of cooperation.

Many, many sparklers.

3 drawings in sidewalk chalk.

2 or 3 attempts at playing Bugdom (the computer game that Eva loves). It just caused too much strife.

1 restaurant game that Lucas made up and played with the girls -- downstairs -- for 2 hours one day (!), allowing us to watch Lars and the Real Girl (our new favorite movie) -- in our jammies, while eating caramel corn. Good times.

3 big containers of bubble stuff.

Only 2 rounds of popsicles! (we tend to forget about them)

3 nights of playing cards. We taught Lucas to play Contract Rummy one night, and then we taught Spades to Max & Lucas another night. It was a huge hit.

Many under-the-table kibbutzes.

Several trips in the van with all of us!

We managed to take a couple photos of the four of us, but it is remarkably hard to get 2 toddlers to look at the camera at the same time, especially without making weird faces.

1 delightfully kid-free day, thanks to Jill

20 trips back and forth to take Lucas to his acting class, and 1 recital at the end attended by: Jessie, Bella, me, Max, Eva, Grandma & Grandpa. Apparently the kid loves acting!

2 very swollen feet. Poor girl!

2 trips to Iceberg and 2 to Cafe Rio

24 layouts completed by The Master

1 maternity photo shoot yesterday morning -- how's that for last minute?

about 30 self-portraits of the two of us...

many time-outs (mostly Eva)

countless groans of frustration (mostly me)

innumerable snacks, cartons of yogurt, sandwiches, macaroni & cheese, etc. prepared

And I am anxiously awaiting our next visit... Love you, Jess & Bella! Miss you already.

Thursday, July 10, 2008

sharing is overrated

Actually, there has been improvement on the sharing front. But when it comes down to it, they love each other and want to play with each other, even when there's been yelling and fighting...
and I think that's pretty darn cute.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

sharing boot camp

Sharing boot camp -- that's what Jessie has dubbed this time together -- and what an apt description it is.

It seems to be especially hard for Eva. You'd think that living with two siblings would have taught her to be more accommodating, but Max and Lucas go out of their way to make Eva happy -- and besides, they don't care a thing about her toys! Having to share everything has been pretty tough on her.

Add to that the fact that she is super-excited to have a playmate her age and wants to do everything with Bella, but Bella is very independent in her play. I think Eva is loving her to death. She just can't figure out why Bella doesn't want to do all the same things, and cries (or more often screams) when Bella has her own ideas.

There are times when they get along very well, but those are definitely more rare. It's very volatile around here, things can change at a moment's notice.

Somehow Jessie is still managing to get a lot of scrapbooking done, despite the constant need for refereeing on our part. She's a wonder.

Yesterday we had a picnic at Lola's graveside, since it would have been her fourth birthday (so hard to believe). It was an emotional time.

We ate lunch and walked around for awhile.

It felt really hot, but the kids didn't seem to mind, and Max rode his bike there and back.

Can you feel the love? Now if only we can turn our sad/happy ratio upside down...
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