tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post116797572930350162..comments2023-10-14T20:56:13.686-06:00Comments on { chez moi }: depression rears its ugly headmichellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14617050750444837628noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168752508389000362007-01-13T22:28:00.000-07:002007-01-13T22:28:00.000-07:00So very sorry, Michelle. I am late to comment, bu...So very sorry, Michelle. I am late to comment, but really hope that things get better soon.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168316525235260042007-01-08T21:22:00.000-07:002007-01-08T21:22:00.000-07:00Your post has opened my eyes to a side of depressi...Your post has opened my eyes to a side of depression that I really never considered. I have always thought of depression as just being sad. I have found myself feeling completely unmotivated quite a bit lately and maybe now I know why. <BR/><BR/>I am sorry to hear that you are not having a great week, but I am so glad that you posted this. I would love to hear about how you get through days like these.stefaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00916615965787495034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168274579350930862007-01-08T09:42:00.000-07:002007-01-08T09:42:00.000-07:00Oh my friend, how I ache for you. I have found th...Oh my friend, how I ache for you. I have found that for me when life is crashing around my shoulders that I go and tan, I know it sounds goofy but somehow it lifts my spirits. Here's hoping that your cloud lifts soon.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168222281270177552007-01-07T19:11:00.000-07:002007-01-07T19:11:00.000-07:00Michelle, I know exactly what you mean. I get the...Michelle, I know exactly what you mean. I get the same way, but probably not as bad. I don't know. But I do know it's so hard to break out of. I hope you feel better soon.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04626706623891455872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168203087082872972007-01-07T13:51:00.000-07:002007-01-07T13:51:00.000-07:00Michelle, I was in a very bad car accident right a...Michelle, I was in a very bad car accident right after I got my license--I was driving and my sister was severely injured (it was questionable whether or not she would be able to bear children). She has 4 beautiful girls now. We as women naturally blame ouselves, you are wise to get it out there and even wiser to understand that this too will pass. Much love to you.Jordanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11637593487392502576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168192403996736292007-01-07T10:53:00.000-07:002007-01-07T10:53:00.000-07:00((BIG HUG))Dana :)((BIG HUG))<BR/><BR/>Dana :)Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15901763322020710179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168138534671216302007-01-06T19:55:00.000-07:002007-01-06T19:55:00.000-07:00so were we seperated at birth or what? did we give...so were we seperated at birth or what? did we give this to each other for the year we lived together?<BR/><BR/>Michelle, I can honestly say I know exactly how you feel. The first week of the year is my worst week. i feel guilty for all the thank you cards i need to write, that I should be thinner, that i have not sent out all my christmas cards, that i have not sent you your cute monogrammed christmas gift i made you November sitting her on my desk looking at me.<BR/>you know honestly when i get like this jeff is so confused. people that he sees that are sick are missing half of their face, so when i look fine he does not understand. and all i want is a big hug. he came home the other day and i was seriously under the covers and the girls were jumping all over me laughing, they thought it was a game and i felt like i was trying to be invisible. <BR/>i always feel bad for my friends and think, they must get sick of being my friend when i get like this. living here no one knows me well enough yet, they just know they have been calling me all week and i have not listened to my messages or called them back. i think i have 8 messages on my machine but feel too overwhelmed to listen to them. <BR/>i love you and at times like this i wish i had a photo of chris pein that i could punch to make me feel better!everything pink!https://www.blogger.com/profile/07473621549432250983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168058672308647352007-01-05T21:44:00.000-07:002007-01-05T21:44:00.000-07:00Thinking of you Michelle. It looks like you are g...Thinking of you Michelle. It looks like you are getting plenty of cyber hugs--please add mine! Hang in there until the light comes!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168057675019069112007-01-05T21:27:00.000-07:002007-01-05T21:27:00.000-07:00I know I'm a stranger, but I am sorry that you are...I know I'm a stranger, but I am sorry that you are feeling this way, and that it is a part of your life. Maybe loving words from your friends can wipe a bit of the smudge away, and hopefully your darkness will lift soon.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168051438646763592007-01-05T19:43:00.000-07:002007-01-05T19:43:00.000-07:00I am so sorry, Michelle. I admire you for trying ...I am so sorry, Michelle. <BR/>I admire you for trying to do something enjoyable - that shows such a stregth of character.<BR/>Your picture completely captures the aura you describe. I hope that you soon feel like posting a big fat bowl of lemons.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168050061991754072007-01-05T19:21:00.000-07:002007-01-05T19:21:00.000-07:00I hope you get feeling better soon. I'm glad you ...I hope you get feeling better soon. I'm glad you are not retreating from us. I miss when you don't post.<BR/><BR/>While I don't from depression I do withdraw and pretend I am fine by myself when I get overwhelmed and am struggling. I love when all of the sudden I realize I am not feeling like that anymore.<BR/><BR/>I am not having the first week of the year I had hoped for either! I wish there were something we could do to help you out - keep venting and cry (that helps me, I think the tears carry away some of the cares).Amiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00601652163975674824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168042674618508572007-01-05T17:17:00.000-07:002007-01-05T17:17:00.000-07:00Sad soul, take comfort, nor forget. That sunrise n...Sad soul, take comfort, nor forget. That sunrise never failed us yet. <BR/> – Celia Thaxter<BR/><BR/>i hope your sunrise comes soon. i don't like these times either. i too have had the "after christmas blahs." it seems we go so hard during the holidays and then there is a let down after! you are very brave to share. i think we all feel this way at some point. it's hard when a friend is going through it because we would all love to do something but know that often it's just a matter of letting time pass.Crystalynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10497747556360275320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168035700626836012007-01-05T15:21:00.000-07:002007-01-05T15:21:00.000-07:00Michelle I am so sorry that you have to suffer thr...Michelle I am so sorry that you have to suffer through depression. I feel so bad for you and Jessie. I can empathize with how you feel a little. I remember so vividly how i felt with my Post Partum Depression with both kids. It honestly is the most awful thing I have ever had to go through. I can only imagine what it would be like to have to go through it more often. I hope you are freed from this depression soon. Know I'll be thinking about you and praying for you.Dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12203198480349062384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168033713269273002007-01-05T14:48:00.000-07:002007-01-05T14:48:00.000-07:00I'm sorry to hear you describe your lack of motiva...I'm sorry to hear you describe your lack of motivation and sense of saddness. I do think it is very common this time of year. I would turn to prayer and don't be hopeless. I wish I were there to cheer you up and admire your hair in person!!I will pray for you. Maybe you should study the paper catalog I sent and await the order!<BR/>I love you always,Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168030706946105772007-01-05T13:58:00.000-07:002007-01-05T13:58:00.000-07:00Depression has become such an ugly word too, with ...Depression has become such an ugly word too, with such negative connotations. I know I avoid the word, saying instead that I'm having a bad day, days, week...<BR/>But you are not alone in this! You describe it so well- the lack of motivation and inability to find a reason. I feel this way at least once a week. Sometimes it lasts hours, sometimes days. And the deabilitating feeling feeds itself, making it hard to pull out.<BR/>I'm thinking of you! Thanks for being brave enough to share!! I complain a lot, but always choose the false happy face. So, really- thank you!jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06038038134805286039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168029577925957912007-01-05T13:39:00.000-07:002007-01-05T13:39:00.000-07:00Hey Michelle, I'm a fellow Pink Christmas gal, and...Hey Michelle, I'm a fellow Pink Christmas gal, and I just wanted to send some cyber hugs your way. I also totally understand. I have struggled with depression for the last few years. I know that I can't make it better, but I know for me it helps to know that I'm not alone. I have a good friend in real life also that I can turn to for comfort, but I know all the feelings you are dealing with. I hate the unmotivated feeling, not being able to DO anything. I hope that you can find something to do for yourself that helps, even if just for a little while. I'm sorry.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13768235150017048781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168018318541946642007-01-05T10:31:00.000-07:002007-01-05T10:31:00.000-07:00Thanks for sharing Michelle. I have been experienc...Thanks for sharing Michelle. I have been experiencing some anxiety this week, and it helps to know others go through emotional and physcial bumps in the road too -- even though I don't wish for you to feel this way. I hope your today is better!Lauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06141809612132976253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168015480447557502007-01-05T09:44:00.000-07:002007-01-05T09:44:00.000-07:00Love you Michelle. I hope you feel like you can co...Love you Michelle. I hope you feel like you can cope soon. Its so paralyzing to feel otherwise.Tashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03180896203244954328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168013085806176322007-01-05T09:04:00.000-07:002007-01-05T09:04:00.000-07:00I am glad you have an alley to get out your feelin...I am glad you have an alley to get out your feelings too. There are some days I often wonder if I should write how I "truly" feel. It takes guts. But, I am often glad I have a place to vent. Please know we all care about you. I hope you feel better soon.jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13344577469992088528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1168004825098571262007-01-05T06:47:00.000-07:002007-01-05T06:47:00.000-07:00I am so sorry that you and Jessie have this to dea...I am so sorry that you and Jessie have this to deal with- and like Jill I always feel so helpless because I know nothing I can say or do will help.<BR/><BR/>Writing about it is good- even if there is nothing we can do as a whole to help with the feelings- just know that you are in our thoughts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1167980461154229102007-01-05T00:01:00.000-07:002007-01-05T00:01:00.000-07:00Michelle I want to reach out and give you a hug ri...Michelle I want to reach out and give you a hug right now. I know that probably sounds so cheesy, but I know exactly what your talking about. Depression is a horrible feeling and when it hits it's hard to let it go. I agree with Jill, I think it's great you can express yourself. It certainly helps me when I feel that way because really all I want to do is find a quite place to hide. I hope the cloud lifts soon.amy gretchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09655435486863334720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1167978674676347842007-01-04T23:31:00.000-07:002007-01-04T23:31:00.000-07:00I'm so glad you have your blog to vent and get it ...I'm so glad you have your blog to vent and get it out in the open. I have found myself in this position numerous times and it is so hard and dark. I never know exactly what got me out if it so when I get back there I'm lost again. Did that make sense? Realizing with Jessie it is a life issue must be a little helpful, no?melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16160737120907349045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1167977510038180392007-01-04T23:11:00.000-07:002007-01-04T23:11:00.000-07:00I always feel so helpless when you hit bottom like...I always feel so helpless when you hit bottom like this because I can't do anything to make you feel better. But I understand because I experience times like this too and know that eventually they will pass. I think it's good that you can write about it and get it out rather than retreating into yourself and cutting off from others.Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09032420498045893374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21397651.post-1167976126493908562007-01-04T22:48:00.000-07:002007-01-04T22:48:00.000-07:00My husband gets this way once or twice a year. It'...My husband gets this way once or twice a year. It's hard for me not to blame myself. As if I were a more supportive wife he wouldn't feel so low...or even stupid little things like if I cooked better dinners he would feel happy. It's taken me 7 years to let it run it's course without it taking me down too. I still don't handle it that well, but at least I know what to expect a little better. What does your husband do? Is there something he could do to make you feel better or worse?Elisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04217306186550926120noreply@blogger.com